A transformative relationship.
To move the Holy Spirit from head to heart, we need a personal relationship with Him. With the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, we begin that relationship that will end with us being conformed to the image of Christ (sanctification).
Conforming to Christ’s image is God’s desire for us. It is where our transformative relationship begins (Rom. 8:29). We as believers cannot accomplish sanctification. It is the sovereign work of the Holy Spirit. We can, however, help or hinder His work in us. It is important that we cooperate with the Holy Spirit.
What does the relationship look like?
Our relationship with the Spirit begins with letting the Holy Spirit fill us with His mind. Warren Wiersbe, noted theologian and teacher, gives insight into how our relationship with the Holy Spirit should operate.
It is not enough for us to have the Spirit; the Spirit must have us! Only then can He share with us the abundant, victorious life that can be ours in Christ. We have no obligation to the flesh, because the flesh has only brought trouble into our lives. We do have an obligation to the Holy Spirit, for it is the Spirit who convicted us, revealed Christ to us, and imparted eternal life to us when we trusted Christ. Because He is “the Spirit of Life,” He can empower us to obey Christ, and He can enable us to be more like Christ.[1]
Our personal relationship with the Holy Spirit requires that we empty ourselves OF OURSELVES. Then there is room for the filling of the Holy Spirit. Through His filling, we receive His power, His truth, His wisdom, and His love. Over time, our relationship with the Holy Spirit will begin to “squeeze out” things of this world and the flesh. Our desire for things “eternal” will take priority (Psa. 27:4). Our decisions and behaviors will reflect the Spirit’s presence in our life (good fruit).
It’s all about the right perspective.
As we attempt to “find our voice” and “discover who we are”, we might lose sight as to our real purpose in life, which can only be defined by God (Eph.2:20). The Holy Spirit helps us with our perspective. He is our Helper. He helps us to be who God created us to be. “God wants to lead you to places you cannot get to without Him, and He does that by the power of His Spirit.”[2]
[1] Warren Wiersbe, “To Be Series”.
[2] Stormie Omartian, Lead Me, Holy Spirit: Longing to Hear the Voice of God.